Bride won't pay for wedding party's lodging

I am the maid of honor in a destination wedding being held outside the country. I have looked through many wedding etiquette websites, and they all say that the hotel rooms for the members of the wedding party should be paid for by the bride and groom (or their parents). However the bride has not.... [Read more]

Including hotel and directions in wedding invitation

I would like to include in my wedding invitation information regarding hotels in the area, directions to the church, directions from the church to the reception hall, and a map of the general area.(Many of our guests are from out of town.) Is it tacky to include this on a separate type-written note.... [Read more]

Do we have to saty at the hotel after the wedding

The mother of the bride says that I have to stay downtown at the hotel when I only live 20 minutes away. I have a husband and child. She says that she can stay in the room with the paid daycare attendant and that we are going to the bar after the reception from midnight till 2 am. The wedding.... [Read more]

Paying for lodging for wedding guests?

I have heard that it is polite for the bride and groom to pay for the lodging for the wedding guests for a destination wedding. What would be the appropriate thing to do in this situation: my (soon-to-be) fiancee and I live in AZ but all our family lives in MI, OH, KY, and TN. We decided to have.... [Read more]

Wedding party lodging

I am getting married and I have a lot of bridesmaids. Several of the girls live out of town. Am I responsible for paying for their hotel rooms for the weekend? I have been in several of their weddings in the past and none of them have provided hotel rooms...I just don't want to have bad.... [Read more]